Taiko Chao

I figured, baby pictures don’t need to be cute. Usually we relate with babies happy atmosphere, some stretch it to constant pressure where they try to entertain these little beings all the time. Forcing to be happy, deceiving the little being with false illusions about life. Later phases in life it could become a stress. I believe these little beings  are much smarter when they come to this world than they often get to be later in life. Smiling is a happy state, but there are so much more variations during single day we are in. I would like to call it a normal state. My guess is that picture like this will stand much better against the stand of the time than many smiles altogether can do. We are what we are.

Lately I had a thought that getting kids is a tough since  it forces you to come out of your safe cave and constantly start to give out your energy to someone. Of course it is hard and tough job. Thats what life is, though! I totally understand the problems we have in the society that population is ageing almost everywhere. It is a cause that we have distanced from life so much that something what is natural has become a challenge we prefer not to take on often at all. Illusive pleasures of western culture are deceiving in many ways, it presents unnecessary pleasures as necessity. I figured that with every kid you will have in a relationship, with every kid you need to start to build your relationship from ground up again. There is nothing constant. As first kid came and relationship started to settle after a while, new one comes and everything starts again beating you up more. People change, which is best part about it. You will grow together with your wife in a way which is impossible in any other way. But you may grow apart as well, most cowards tends to flee in situations like that than to bend their hearths. This is why I truly respect families which have stood test of the time, and that more I respect those who have decided to get kids as well. My greetings go out all to you, who have decided to step out of the comfort zone!